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Santa’s Gift to Me: A Strong Network

25 Dec

Santa was truly great to me this year!  His gift?  Giving me a strong network of amazing people: family, friends, mentors, co-workers, and more.

As I had mentioned before, up through Thanksgiving, I was thankful for 3 most exciting events (all, in some part, had to do with my network).

Well, in the past month, even more exciting things have happened (because of Santa’s gift):

  • I got the marketing job I wanted (more on this in a later blog post)
  • I met amazing people including Ed Bennett (founder & former CEO of VH1 & MTV), Charles Vogl (award-winning film-maker & producer & founder of Broken English Productions), Victoria Bousis (film producer & principal at Bousis Film Company) and Eric Morse (head of marketing at Dylan’s Candy Bar)

And, this is on top of all the exciting projects coming up next year!

I know I am very lucky and I am so appreciative of every moment.

Like I had written on facebook and twitter this morning, even if you don’t believe in Santa, you can believe in the magic of sharing with your loved ones all the joy, laughter, and memories from the year as well as the amazing feasts of this season.

I know it’s been very magical for me this year, especially when I got to share with you, my reader, all my hopes, dreams, joys, pain-points, annoyances, and everything else.   (Hope you had as much fun reading as I had writing.)

Merry Christmas!

3 Things I’m Most Thankful For This Year

24 Nov

Happy Thanksgiving!  Last year, I asked what it meant for a nation of immigrants.  This year, I want to give my thanks because it has been amazing.  

I got a chance to:

I realized that everything I’ve done this year is because of 3 important things (I’m most thankful for):

#3 – My City. 

New York City gave me the platform to excel.

#2 – My Brain.

My brain allowed me access to the ambition and drive from deep within.

#1 – My Support Network.

And, without my strong support network of encouraging friends and uber-confident parents, I wouldn’t have been able to seize all the opportunities that came my way this year.

So…

Thank you, New York City.  

Thank you, Brain.  

But, most of all,

Thank you family, friends, mentors, and supporters.  

2011 wouldn’t have been the same without you!

3 Stories of Love: Pure, Unrequited and Lost

14 Feb

LOVE by Robert Indiana

After listening to the speakers of The Moth talk about their stories of love, I felt inspired to recount three (short) stories about love.

Since it’s Valentine’s Day, I thought it would suit nicely.

First Love.

The very first time you fall in love, your emotions are completely pure, innocent and unadulterated.  There are no thoughts of consequences (or, at least, very few thoughts in that aspect).  The only thing in your mind and heart is your feelings for your first love.

She gazed into his eyes and she knew… that all the troubles, all the worries, all the things that seemed to block their future together would melt away like the winter snow outside her window.  She knew she was whole-heartedly in love with him.  She had never felt this way before.  She didn’t know if the knots in her stomach were due to fear or excitement.  She didn’t know if the beads of sweat forming on her forehead came from arousal or anxiety.  All she knew was she wanted to be with him day and night.  Everything seemed so natural and so right.  Nothing could keep her away from him and him from her.  They were first time lovers and they would stay lovers for all eternity (or that was how they felt.)  Nothing could keep them apart, they believed.

Love Forever More.

Have you ever been so in love with someone so much that you  didn’t see the crumbling of a relationship?

He loved her so much more each day, but she didn’t know how to accept that.  He wanted to spend the rest of his life showing her how much she meant to him, but she wasn’t ready.  He didn’t care though.  He believed that with time she would change how she felt.  He believed she would come to realize just how much he loved her and that no one else could love her the way he did.  He genuinely believed that she would return his love.  However, the day she walked out the door, she didn’t look back.  He was heart-broken.  He loved her too much to see the problems that had surfaced.  He didn’t want to lose her and in doing so had grasped so hard at their love line that she felt strangled.  By the time he saw what had happened, how his love suffocated her, it had become too late.  He loved her so much.  Sadly, too much.

A Love Lost.

The most unbreakable love is that of parents for their children.  From the moment of conception, the parent is inevitably bonded to the child.  The parent loves the child instantaneously.  However, what happens when the child doesn’t reciprocate that love?

He loved her unequivocally because she was his blood and bones.  He wanted everything for her and he did everything for her.  He wanted the perfect life for her and he did everything in his power to protect her from the hardships in the world.  Yet, the more he tried to pull her close to protect her, the harder she pushed away.  He desperately wanted her to accept his love, but she denied it at every moment.  He loved her and she hated him.  What was he to do?  He was her father.  He had to protect her.  How could he watch her ruin her life because she wanted nothing to do with him?  How could he not do something when something had to be done?  He was her father.  He loved her unequivocally, but she didn’t care.  Her love for him had disappeared a long time ago and nothing he did could bring that back.  What was a father to do but try desperately to hold on to a tenuous grasp on a lost love?

New Category: Failed Food Experiments

29 Dec

All of my friends and family know that I don’t cook.

20% of the time, it’s because I am lazy. However, the other 80% is because—well—I just SUCK at cooking.

I have made attempts. Many, actually. And I have failed almost all of them.  As a kid, I baked brownies that turned to cookies.  As an adult, I’ve created exploding eggs, oil-filled hash browns and recreations of sauces I really shouldn’t have done.

A few days ago, as I sat with a friend over lunch, I told him about my recent failed cooking attempts.  He cracked up so hard a piece of lamb kabob launched from his mouth across the restaurant.  I didn’t realize my stories were that funny.  But, I guess I was wrong.  He suggested that I blog about my experiments as it is the season to share some joy and hilarity.

Thus, I decided to create a new category called “Failed Food Experiments” to document my failings.  Sure, there are tons of amazing websites like the storytelling recipe-giving My Social Chef or the consortium of food blogs at Food Press or the general Food Network.  But, none of them talk about their failed attempts.  I thought, I’d spread some holiday cheer by telling my stories.

Perhaps, it will deter people from making the same mistakes as me or it could just give them a laugh or two. Either way, I am not here to give out recipes of delicious meals, but only to explain my failed food experiments.

So… Enjoy and HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

3 (+7) Reasons I Heart Christmas!

25 Dec

I don’t care what anyone says about the meaning of Christmas being diluted by the advent of Santa Claus, mass spending, and giant feasts.  I still love Christmas for its non-religious reasons.  Why?  Here are a few reasons (in no specific order):

  1. Santa Claus.
  2. Gifts.  Lots of them.
  3. Forces little kids to behave at least once a year.  (Come on.  It’s a blessing for parents.)
  4. Corporations make up any promotional f— ups and losses during this holiday due to massive spending from consumers.  (You buy even when you don’t have to.)
  5. Dancing elves.
  6. Beautiful decorations and bright lights (plus a giant tree).
  7. Ridiculously delicious foods.
  8. Reindeer.
  9. Family time.
  10. Romantic rendezvous (e.g. ice-skating, hot chocolate runs, fancy dinners, crazy partying, drunken debauchery, etc.)

Regardless whether people have any idea behind the religious holiday that is Christmas, the non-religious but globally celebrated Santa-Claus-is-coming-to-town holiday is pretty AWESOME.

So, Merry Christmas, everyone!!!

(Oh by the way, I got my parents an iPad.  I know.  I succumbed.)

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